2 B’s Formula To Build Good Personality
The
personality you build up is upto you ! you are the architect of your
personality. For your personality is the passport to success. The individual
who cooperates willingly and cheerfully
may not need to think about developing a ‘good’ personality. But a ‘good’
personality can be made even better.
Some
2B’s formula to build good personality. One is Bliss and another is Beauty. These are required for the modern
personality development in this
turbulent modern environment. Such formula
are discussed below;
1). Bliss:
Bliss increases face value and entire personality.
To get bliss one should be self-actualized without self-actualization one
cannot get bliss. We find in present days society all are suffering with some
deficiency. It may be job, money, family
life, social evils, environment etc. Everybody is in search or in want of some
thing for his personal satisfaction. In this way, according to Economic Theory
human wants are so many and unlimited. If one want is fulfilled the
another also exists in that place.
Hence, bliss is one of the deficiencies
in the human life. It is high time in this turbulent environment everybody should adopt positive
thinking and self-confidence and try his best to be satisfied with what he/she
is having. Everybody must adopt spiritualism so that people will be contended with what he/she is having.
Everybody must try his best to participate in social services because man is a social animal and by
participating in social services, the
country will be developed and a smile on the face is an added advantage for a good
personality. All great personalities face glow because they achieved bliss.
Bliss means the
highest happiness. Everybody wants
highest happiness in their life. But we may not achieve bliss in our life. If
you want bliss in your life, you should adopt the following formula;
If
you want to be happy in a day !
You should read good books.
If
you want to be happy in a week !
You can spend with good friends.
If you
want to be happy in a month or a year !
You can marry.
But, If you want to be happy for
a life time !
You should take up a profession with
interest and commitment.
This
is because bliss is considered to be a part of your attire. Moreover, if you
bliss at your audience and look relaxed, they will react warmly to you. This
would also give them the indication that you treat them as friends.
To
have bliss, one should be spiritual straight forward, honest, truthful and
devoted to his duties. Now a days, there is a dress code for each and every
occasion and every office.
2). Beauty:
Beauty
is nothing but the quality which a person is possessing. In recent studies it
is revealed that the beautiful signature of great persons effects the personality. Beauty is a sort of
bloom on a personality. It strikes the sight; it magnetizes. This invaluable asset of
personality is not inborn. It can be developed by any one by following certain
techniques. Here are the main techniques;
i). Beauty in
the way of walking
The
way your move towards a person does a lot to tell him how you feel. It conveys
an instant and definite impression. You create a good impression if you move
forward energetically to greet the other person, if there is a lift in your
shoulder, a spring in your gait, grace in your steps and an eagerness on your
face to plunge into your work. In a word, the way your walk can help you on the
road to a successful personality.
ii). Beauty
in the way of talking
The
person with whom it is a pleasure to talk has something interesting to say- and
say it well. He also knows when to listen. Encourage others to talk to you.
Voice is a vital trait of personality. Modulate your voice. Have a smile on
your lips. Speak clearly. Do not talk too fast or too slowly.
Jesus said that;
“What
goes into the mouth, that doesn’t defilth a person !
What come out of the mouth, that defilth a person”.
iii). Beauty
in the way of looking
And
we mean your face is the mirror, of your personality. We hope not : for smiling is the easiest
thing in the world to do. A sparkling smile and a merry twinkle in your eye are
above rubies. They make other persons feel good-and they help you feel good
too. It is amazing how relaxing a smile that lights the face also warms the
heart. Then your smiles will be the natural expression of “a genuinely radiant
personality.” Intellectuals always look
towards a bright future ! they never be pessimistic.
iv). Beauty
in the way of dressing
Of
course, the old saying, “The tailor makes the man”, is only partially true, but
good clothes can make a man look more impressive than he really is. A neat,
conservatively-dressed person makes a far better impression than someone who
wears gaudy garments, or goes along with kooky hippy fads. A sloppily dressed
guy is all too frequently someone who is also sloppy in his other habits and
thinking. Do not let your dress be an attraction or distraction. Do not be
overly dressy.
v). Beauty in
the way of treating others
Courtesy
is to human relations what oil is to machinery. The foundation of good
inter-personal relations is friendliness and goodwill. Be considerate of
others. Make “Please” and “Thank You” as two essentials of your vocabulary. Be
ready to praise some one who has done a good job. Learn to disagree agreeably.
No intelligent person expects you to rubber stamp all his ideas but he does
expect politeness and rationality when you disagree with him. A gentleman will
refuse to make an issue out of every difference or opinion.
vi). Beauty
in the way of working
If
you have a good attitude towards your work, even the odds
that you do, will do a good job. A sense of accomplishment is vital to
enjoyment of work. When you enjoy your
work, you radiate a more positive personality.
vii). Beauty
in the way of looking on life
In
the development of personality your outlook on life counts a great deal. Are
you an optimist ? or a Pessimist ? Dr.
Albert Schweitzer wisely remarks, “An
optimist is a person who sees a green light everywhere, while the pessimist
sees only the red stop-light.. but the truly wise person is colour-blind”. Keep
the top of the ladder in sight, but go up by one rung at a time.
The
cheerful person is one who have bliss and smiles readily; he is much more
charming and beautiful. He looks younger, more attractive, more confident. A
cheerful person is welcomed everywhere. An old Irish proverb has it, “continual
cheerfulness is a sign of wisdom”. Beautifulness and cheerfulness are fundamental emotions. A cheerful, beautiful
and pleasant dispositions are worth more than wealth of universe. Beautifulness
and cheerfulness of disposition
is a matter of inborn temperament it is also capable of being cultivated. A
person can encourage the disposition of looking at the brightest side of things
instead of the darkest. And while he sees the cloud, he should not shut his
eyes to the silver lining. In his ‘Autobiography’, Andrew Carnegie writes, “A
sunny disposition is worth more than fortune. Young people should know that it
can be cultivated; that the mind, like the body, can be moved from the shade
into sun-shine”.
Reference
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- Dr. B.V.Pattabhi Ram(2004), Genius You Too, Master
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Development, Brigth Careers Institute,
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- Shiv Khera(2003), You Can Win, Macmillan India Ltd,
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